Sunday, 21 June 2015

WHY NEW YEAR RESOLUTION FAILS?

A chunk of words from my diary - 2 :


@8.52pm                                                                        01/01/2015

New year, New hopes, New dreams and New life. Bit inspired by the articles and blogs posted by Trivandrum ILP centre Head, Damodhar Padhi with the title "Monday Morning Trivia", "Why new year resolution fails?", is all about I am talking of.

He has shared his own experiences in it where he states why the new year resolution fails. When a person sets up the new resolution, often he starts working on it for the sake of fulfilling it which fades away as days go on.But he emphasizes that instead of taking the change/habit as resolution, take one good habit at a time and try to cultivate it till we become addicted to it and with an added benefit of getting rid of bad/unwanted habits.

In short, he insists on "CONSTRUCTIVE DEVELOPMENT", this is how I took his experience as.

Yes, everyone will have a list of good habits which we want to cultivate within ourselves which might include being more optimistic, concentrate more towards family, being more motivated,mastering in dance, singing.etc; I believe if we make home for all these at specific point of time which needs will power and patience, the habit of "Constructive Development" will be achieved. Its never late to start anything new and good.

"When you want something, all the Universe conspires in helping you achieve it" - Paulo Coelho
I would like to keep the same name for this blog as yours.Thanks Mr. Padhi for your wonderful posts till date.





      

Thursday, 11 June 2015

FIRST DAY AT ROOM NO.123

A chunk of words from my diary - 1:


@7:58pm                                                                                                                                08/12/2013


FIRST DAY at room no. 123, Executive Hostel, Trivandrum also called as "Kenton Leisure".


Kenton Leisure, Trivandrum



Sitting in the room no. 123 allotted for me by TATA CONSULTANCY SERVICES LIMITED in executive hostel at Techno park,in Trivandrum. Mom and Dad waved their wishes and byes. Dropping them to bus stand and writing here is a bit strange feeling.

After a long journey of 22 years with them, it’s the first ever time that I am staying away from my loving family. Since my school and colleges were near to my place i.e. Harihar and Davangere, it was easy to complete my education at my hometown. But COMPANIES’ and JOBS don’t compromise on these things whether we are far away from our hometown,

WHEREVER THE FLOW TAKES, WE NEED TO GO, isn’t it?

Yes right now I have wishes from my friends. oh sorry I forgot to mention huge amount of blessings and guidance showering on me from my mom and dad J. Hope all their wishes and blessings shall be forever on me.

It’s a point and a circumstance to think and act wisely. No one to care, no one to advice, no one to guide, no one to feed (especially for me at the eleventh hour), no one to talk to properly,… uff how many ”no ones” should I count still? Yes its not a kidding part, it has to be considered seriously. Because I should be a mentor, guide, care taker, decision maker, talker, ..etc to myself.

It’s my first day to office tomorrow. I have made up my mind that I should be "A very good techie", learning quickly as fast as possible, and the qualities required to be. From tomorrow, it is not A LIFE OF PIE instead it is A LIFE OF TECHIE.